Ashley Logsdon, Relationship Coach
A counselor helps you process through the pain of your past. A coach helps you lay out the vision for your future...and break it down to what you can do today.
Ready to move into the life you love, yet unsure of what you really want...or who you really are?
Here is the secret to moving forward...
To better connect with others, we must first find ourselves.
As my father Dan Miller says, 85% of the process of finding the work - and life - you love is by looking inward first. Yet sometimes, we’re so close to the issues it can be hard to pinpoint what isn’t working, or what blind spots we may have.
Sometimes, a coach is the perfect answer to peel back the layers and uncover your strengths, fears and passions to help you determine your next steps.
Instead of trying to be a “jack of all trades, master of none,” I work with individuals (and families) to identify what your unique sweet spots are that allow you to truly flow. When we spend all our time focusing on what we don’t do well and what we don’t like, that tends to be more of what we see. Shifting that perspective to know your own skillset and do it well can be a complete game-changer.
Not only is identifying your own unique abilities helpful in finding a job or building your sweet spot in your business, but it is also key to deepening the connection with your partner and your children.
Ashley has an outstanding ability to establish trust quickly. She is calm and confident with humorous and strong wisdom. She asks poignant and purposeful questions and allows you to come to your own answers. She is a trusted advisor—a seasoned guide. You are the hero. She celebrates your wins and supports you in your discovery of yourself and your life’s destination. She offers you the courage to become the leading lady of your own story and create a life you’re proud of.
Life happens. You’re human, and you have default reactions and emotions that help you cope with what comes your way. When you can identify what triggers negative reactions, however, you can shift your mindset for a more productive experience and a stronger connection with those around you.
So often people come to me in the midst of a transition. They have left their job, or they are miserable there. They are fed up with the school system and trying to figure out homeschool. They are hoping to make their dreams of travel a reality. They’ve just gone through a divorce, children leaving the nest, etc.
During a time of legitimate insecurity, when you are unaware of your own strengths, our natural tendency is simply to try and be what we think is needed.
And as long as we're just generating the same responses to life as we always have, we're going to continue to create the same patterns.
I have seen smooth and steady peacemakers trying to step up as an assertive leader and and having a panic attack of anxiety. And I’ve seen incredible visionaries, eager to launch their business, get so overloaded with the details that they throw in the towel. I've talked to parents who have all the best curriculum yet have hit a road block with their child hating the learning process, and people with the best laid out road trip adventure for their family, yet...they don't enjoy each other enough to handle being in the car that long!
You gave me so much to process through, but the actionable steps are already helping. In just the past few days, I’ve noticed many times during the day where something we talked about - such as matching criticism with gratitude, or resetting with a long hug - has come to mind. And even though there is initial resistance, if I allow myself to be more open and relinquish some control, everyone relaxes.
Also, a big victory! I picked up my horn and played music last night with some old coworkers. I wasn’t going to do it; daddy had to get all three kids to bed on his own. But I went, and it was a blast! Definitely a recharge. And wouldn’t you know...daddy did great, and the kids were wonderful with him. It’s now the “weekly thing,” with a Christmas performance scheduled. So stoked, and Sean got a confidence boost from his time with the kids.
I’ll work my way through these resources. Can’t wait to see the growth in myself, and benefits for my family, in the coming months.
Again, thank you!!
By paying attention to what your strengths are and creating the space to thrive in your strengths, not simply muscling through those areas that don’t come naturally to you, you pave the way for a beautiful opportunity to collaborate, to connect, and to thrive.
If you've been hoping that "one day" your family will jive smoother, "one day" you'll find work you love, and "one day" you'll be able to enjoy all the fruit of your labors...well, it'll always remain "one day" until you put a date on it.
So when will that be?
What is your next step to create a life you and your family thrive in?
Remember, to move forward, start within. Your first step is simply bringing awareness to the situation, and paying attention to how that is impacting you.
And if you aren't sure where to go next, fill out this application below and let me get to know more about what’s going on. This is the first step in coaching with me, and allows me to identify what resources and support I can offer you along your journey.
I initially thought I had to figure out what I wanted out of this life to make everything work, I then realized during our call that I have to figure out what WE want out of this life. I realized I have been building everything backwards. Business can't be my sole focus to get my family to a good life, I have to build my family and then figure out how business fits in to assist our goals and vision. Also, the introduction to DISC was very powerful, I see that as a key understanding of people and how to get along with them better. The value I received from just one call with Ashley was immeasurable.
Business owner, husband, father of 2
- For You
- For your Relationship
- For Your Family
The Namaste Experience
Are you experiencing doubt about your role, your abilities, and/or your significance?
Feeling overwhelmed? Stuck in a rut?
Need a push to organize your chaos so you can take charge of your life again?
The love, light, and beauty within me honors, respects and adores the love, light and beauty within you...but first, you have to recognize what that is! Using the DISC personality snapshot as a basis, we dig deep into what that light is that you can shine on others, and we address authentic love for oneself and how it radiates out to others.
We all get stuck in routines and habits that are simply reactions to all that life has thrown at us, and sometimes the best thing that can be done is to get a jolt from the outside.
Coach Tony Robbins is notorious for his confrontational jolts to break habits and shift people into making positive change in their lives. If you're ready for change but not quite ready for that level of force, let a mama who's been there walk you through it. We'll take a bird's-eye view of your life and your pain points, and look at simple steps to gain order and confidence in your daily life, as well as reach the goals you set, whether at work, home, or both.
- 1 video conference Zoom Call with the option of video/audio replays (up to 2 hour session)
- Personality Snapshot (and graph analysis) for you and your family - helping you see how you can better relate to those under your own roof
- Key resources (books, videos, etc) to supplement what we work through.
- 1 month email access and weekly check-in/accountability work
Perspective: How much is a monthly car payment? Which is longer lasting?
Paradigm Shifter Sessions
The Paradigm Shifter Program is a full-on, comprehensive 60 day process of one-on-one life planning. This package lays out a conceptual, yet structured, process that will enhance your personal sense of balance, focus, confidence and enthusiasm, regardless of any momentary circumstances. This is not about just finding a job or tackling bedtime fiascos in your home. This is about a lifestyle shift where you are the artist painting the picture of the life you dream of.
Each of the eight sessions included in this package is approximately 1 hour in length and includes personal action steps and email followup after every session. The culmination is the personalized application, which takes many individualized approaches, often embracing creative skills in ways never before seen as possible.
Perspective: this is the VIP coaching package that is a fully customizable gameplan for you and your family. What is the cost of a family vacation to Disney? What if you spent that money on something that would make those vacations more enjoyable?
The Lightworker Package
A "lightworker" is someone who wants to see healing in the world on a large scale, considers themselves able to detect subtle healing energy, and has had some kind of a mystical awakening in their lives, be it current or a past life.
If only we were all light-workers who could heal others simply through our intuition! Sometimes we struggle just understanding the ones around us, much less actually intuitively knowing how to heal them! If you are struggling with relationships to the ones you hold dearest, this is for you. This isn't about "fixing" your partner. This is about re-igniting the love that brought you together in the first place, and starting with healing from within. It's about taking responsibility for the strengths you bring, and asking the powerful question, "What is your goal?"
We can all communicate with our words. But words are simply words if there is no connection behind them. Learn how to communicate effectively in a way that resonates, where you truly understand that "namaste" term and how the uniqueness in each of us strengthens all of us.
- 4 1-hour Zoom Calls (optional video and audio recordings of replays)
- TWO Personality Snapshots (and graph analysis) - one for you, and one for the relationship that needs the most healing
- Book(s)/Resources of Ashley's Choice (for example, for an intimate relationship, this is a favorite: "How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It" and my "Ignite Your Love Life" printable)
- PDF Couple's Reboot Guidebook, complete with step-by-step action plan and exercises for deeper connection.
- 2-month email access and weekly check-in/accountability work
Perspective: Consider a weekend getaway to Cancun. We pay for these all-inclusive trips to make things easy so we can connect. But if the tension is still there, is it simply a fun weekend, and then you go back to the daily grind?
Finding "om" in hOMe Sessions
Are you looking to find a peaceful sanctuary at home?
Do you need help with clearing the clutter out of your house, your head, and your heart?
How do you create "sanctuary" in your home? My mother wrote a book called "Creating a Haven of Peace: When You're Feeling Down, Finances Are Flat, and Tempers Are Rising". Clearly the apple didn't fall far from the tree! While we have different slants, my yogi/feng shui focus is the same - creating that safe haven that really brings "om" to your hOMe.
This is a completely customizable package where we focus in on your key struggles in your family. It may be a "Take Back the Night" campaign where we zone in on the bedtime battles, a "Clear the Clutter" mission where we lay out clearing the clutter from your home, your head and your heart, or a "Family Vision" where we reboot the family dynamics and help everyone get on the same page.
Or, this package helps you figure out new routines as you're building your business, or any area of your family that isn't quite in sync. With my role at 48 Days, I have plenty of insights into navigating work and home!
While this package can be what is listed here, the range can be anywhere from $500-$4500 based on how many calls we do and what we zone in on. Fill out the application in order to assess what works best for your family needs right now.
- 6 1-hour Zoom Calls (optional video and audio recordings of the replay)
- Personality Snapshots (and graph analysis) - for the whole family - including the option to have family members sit in, be included in coaching, or share sessions.
- Book(s)/Resources of Ashley's Choice (for example, for an intimate relationship, this is a favorite: "How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It")
- PDF Family "Reboot" Plan, fully customized with printables and step-by-step action steps and exercises based on our calls.
- 2-month email access and weekly check-in/accountability work
Perspective: In the business world, a $2500 ticket for a personal development or networking event is something we can easily justify as a worthwhile investment. Other than push-button entertainment like a theme park, vacation or movie, what investments have you made in your family? What if you considered proactively setting intention and vision in your home as even more of a priority than your work? Which lasts longer?